Why You Can't Sleep - Common Causes of Insomnia and Poor Sleep

It's 2 AM and you're wide awake, staring at the ceiling. If you've ever asked yourself, "Why can't I sleep?" you're not alone. Insomnia and poor sleep plague millions, leaving them exhausted and frustrated. In fact, insomnia (trouble sleeping) affects up to 35% of adults at some point. The reasons behind those sleepless nights aren't always obvious. Sometimes it's as simple as having one too many coffees, while other times it can be stress or an underlying health issue.

Understanding what causes insomnia is the first step toward reclaiming your sleep. In this article, we'll break down the most common causes of poor sleep and insomnia in simple terms. You'll learn how habits, thoughts, and health conditions can all sabotage your slumber. We'll also point out a few quick self-assessment quizzes along the way to help you pinpoint issues. By the end, you'll know the main culprits behind insomnia and be ready to take action.

Poor Sleep Hygiene: Habits That Keep You Up

One of the most common (and fixable) causes of poor sleep is bad sleep habits, also known as poor sleep hygiene. Sleep hygiene simply means the daily routines and environment that affect your sleep. Unfortunately, many of us have habits that keep our brains alert when they should be winding down. Here are some sleep hygiene issues that might be causing your insomnia:

• Irregular sleep schedule: Going to bed and waking up at different times each day confuses your body's internal clock. For example, if you sleep at 10 PM on weekdays but 1 AM on weekends, your body never knows when to feel sleepy.
• Too much screen time before bed: Scrolling through your phone, watching TV, or working on your laptop at night exposes you to bright light and mental stimulation. This blue light can suppress melatonin (the sleep hormone) and trick your brain into thinking it's daytime. Using smartphones or watching TV right before bed can disrupt your sleep cycle.
• Caffeine, nicotine, and other stimulants: That late afternoon coffee or evening energy drink might be keeping you up. Caffeine and nicotine are stimulants that can stay in your system for hours. Drinking them too late in the day can make it hard to fall asleep. And while alcohol might make you drowsy at first, it actually disrupts deeper sleep stages, causing you to wake up in the night.
• An uncomfortable sleep environment: A bedroom that's noisy, too bright, too hot or cold, or with an uncomfortable mattress can prevent you from relaxing. Even things like a partner snoring or pets on the bed might be sabotaging your shuteye.
• Doing stimulating activities in bed: If you're answering work emails or playing video games in bed, your brain starts to associate your bed with being alert, not asleep. Experts recommend reserving your bed for sleep only, so your mind knows that bed = sleep.

Related: 10 Tips for Better Sleep Hygiene – If your habits are hindering your sleep, you may want to read our guide on building healthier bedtime routines.

Try this: Take our Sleep Hygiene Quiz to see how your bedtime habits stack up. It can help identify which of your behaviors might be contributing to insomnia, and what you can change for a better night's sleep.

Stress and Difficulty Relaxing: When You Can't Turn Off Your Mind

Do you ever lie in bed exhausted but your mind just won't shut off? Stress and overthinking are major causes of short-term insomnia. When you’re stressed about work, school, finances, or personal issues, your body stays in "fight or flight" mode. Elevated stress hormones like cortisol make it hard to relax enough to fall asleep.

Racing thoughts or anxiety at bedtime can create a vicious cycle: you're stressed so you can't sleep, and then you're even more stressed about not sleeping. Big life events (like a loss, breakup, or job change) can trigger temporary insomnia.

If relaxation is a challenge, consider adding a wind-down period before bed. Gentle stretches, deep breathing, meditation, or a warm bath can signal to your brain that it's time to calm down. Also, try writing down your worries or a next-day task list earlier in the evening so those thoughts don't spiral in bed.

Related: 5 Relaxation Techniques to Help You Sleep – Learn simple methods to quiet your mind and ease into sleep.

Quiz: Not sure if your sleeplessness is just stress or something more? Try our Insomnia Screening Quiz. This quick quiz helps determine if you might be dealing with clinical insomnia (where sleep trouble lasts at least 3 nights a week for 3+ months) or if it's likely linked to temporary stress. Depending on your score, you can decide if it's time to seek additional help.

Mental Health Conditions: Depression, Anxiety, and More

Mental health and sleep are deeply connected. If you have a mental health condition like anxiety, depression, PTSD, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia, it's very common to also experience insomnia or disturbed sleep. In fact, about 75% of people with depression have trouble falling or staying asleep. Anxiety often brings racing thoughts and panic at night, and PTSD can cause nightmares and vigilant sleep. Bipolar disorder can disrupt sleep cycles especially during manic or depressive episodes. And schizophrenia or other psychotic disorders may lead to irregular sleep patterns as well.

• Anxiety Disorders: Excessive worry and panic attacks can keep your mind racing at night, making it very difficult to drift off.
• Depression: Depression often causes early morning awakenings or broken sleep . Lack of sleep can then feed back into worsening depression symptoms – a vicious cycle.
• Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Nightmares, flashbacks, and an overactive fight-or-flight response can severely disrupt sleep. It's hard to feel safe enough to sleep soundly when you're coping with trauma memories.

If you suspect your mental health is a factor in your insomnia, it’s important to address it. Treating the underlying anxiety or depression with therapy or medication often improves sleep as well.

Related: How Mental Health Affects Sleep (and Vice Versa) – Explore more about the sleep-mental health cycle and tips to break free.

Check your mental health: Consider taking a Mental Health Quiz focusing on mood and anxiety levels. Sometimes, we attribute all our fatigue to poor sleep when in reality conditions like anxiety or depression are the root cause. A quick screening quiz can highlight if you have signs of a mental health issue that a professional could help with – which might in turn improve your sleep.

Medical Conditions and Sleep Disorders: Physical Issues That Cause Insomnia

It’s not all in your head – lots of medical issues can wreak havoc on your sleep. If you've ruled out obvious habit and stress causes, it might be time to consider if a health condition is keeping you up. Here are some common ones:

• Chronic pain: Pain from conditions like arthritis, fibromyalgia, back problems, or injuries can make it hard to get comfortable at night. Pain flares often worsen at night when there are fewer distractions. The discomfort keeps jolting you awake.
• Breathing problems (Sleep apnea & asthma): Sleep apnea is a disorder where you briefly stop breathing repeatedly during sleep, often due to airway obstruction. You might not fully wake up each time, but these breathing pauses disrupt your deep sleep (and often cause loud snoring). If you feel tired despite spending enough hours in bed, apnea could be why. Asthma or allergies can also cause coughing or wheezing at night.
• Restless Legs Syndrome (RLS): This is a neurological condition that creates an uncontrollable urge to move your legs at night. People describe creepy-crawly or tingling sensations that only movement relieves. RLS can kick in just as you're trying to fall asleep, making you miserable and restless.
• Acid reflux (GERD): When you lie down, stomach acid can creep up into your esophagus, causing heartburn that may jolt you awake.
• Hormonal or neurological conditions: An overactive thyroid (hyperthyroidism) revs up your metabolism and can cause insomnia. Neurological diseases like Parkinson’s or Alzheimer’s often disturb sleep-wake cycles too.
• Other sleep disorders: Insomnia can also be a symptom of other sleep disorders like parasomnias (sleepwalking, night terrors) or circadian rhythm disorders (like being a night owl who can't fall asleep until very late). Treating those conditions can improve the insomnia.

If you think a medical issue is at play, talk to your doctor. They might treat the condition (for example, better pain management or medication adjustments) or refer you for a sleep study. Many people don't realize they have sleep apnea or other disorders until they get evaluated. Addressing a medical cause can dramatically improve your sleep quality once properly treated.

Related: Common Sleep Disorders and Their Treatments – Learn about signs of sleep apnea, RLS, and other sleep-related conditions that might be interfering with your rest.

Primary Insomnia: When Insomnia Is the Problem Itself

Sometimes, insomnia exists on its own, not clearly linked to stress, habits, or medical problems. This is known as primary insomnia. In primary insomnia, you might be doing everything "right" – a good sleep routine, no obvious health issues – yet you still struggle to sleep for a month or more. Primary insomnia can start for no obvious reason or after a period of stress has passed.

Researchers think primary insomnia may be related to an overactive nervous system at night or a genetic predisposition to light sleep. Essentially, your body may be a bit too good at staying alert. While frustrating, the good news is primary insomnia can often be managed with strategies like cognitive-behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) and relaxation training.

(Stay tuned for our upcoming article dedicated to Primary Insomnia, where we'll dive deeper into why it happens and how to treat it.)

Taking Action: Next Steps to Improve Your Sleep

Reading about all these potential causes might feel overwhelming, but it should also be empowering. Now you have a better idea of why you can't sleep, which means you can start tackling the problem. Here are some next steps to consider:

• Tweak your sleep hygiene: Small changes like keeping a consistent bedtime, creating a calming pre-sleep routine, and making your bedroom more sleep-friendly can make a big difference. (If you haven't already, take that Sleep Hygiene Quiz for personalized pointers!)
• Manage stress: If anxiety is keeping you up at night, practice stress-reduction techniques. Even 10 minutes of meditation or a chat with a therapist can help calm your mind.
• Address health issues: If a medical or mental health condition is a culprit, treating that condition is key. This might mean talking to a healthcare provider about pain control, checking for sleep apnea, or getting help for depression/anxiety. Remember, insomnia is often connected to other issues – addressing those can improve your sleep.

Now that you understand the potential causes, take the next step. Try the quizzes above for a quick self-check, and consider reaching out to a doctor or sleep specialist for personalized help. With the right changes and support, you can break the insomnia cycle and finally get the restful sleep you deserve.

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